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"Yeah, you're probably right..."
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Hi friend, Is your first reaction when someone tells you something, "Yeah. They're probably right." Do you go along with what other people say? For example, awhile ago, someone told me that I was too nice, and that I needed to work on that. My immediate reaction was, "Yeah. I know. That’s not good.” But then I thought about it for a second. I don't want to keep accepting other people's opinions before I've taken the time to figure out what I actually think. Maybe it's true. Maybe I am too nice. Or maybe there's something useful in what they're noticing about me. Or maybe I honestly completely disagree. But I'll never know if I don't take the itme to consider it. Coach Jose 💛
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Coach Jose | Respond, Don't React
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