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Hi friend, This week, I want to encourage you to make a move. For us awkward folks, that can be hard. Too often, we want to feel certain about our next step before we take it. We want to have the right words completely formulated in our minds before we speak. We want to know the answer before we ask. We want to know how things will turn out before we decide. But most of the time, none of those things are realistic. We have to take the step first. We have to deal with the uncertainty. I want to know what brave next step you'll be taking this week. And I want you to feel welcome here if you're trying to spend less time reaching, overthinking, or talking yourself out of things. We're all a work in progress. Coach Jose 💛
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Coach Jose | Respond, Don't React
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